Can we agree

That no matter what if you see things as good or bad, that your life will be so much better if you focus and only see the good. I took a 6 month period in which I decided I would not allow any negative talk or behavior in my life. Now when I started this I would have said that there was already very little in my life anyways, that I was only further reducing the negative.

What happened during this time period really surprised me. Not only was there so much more negative talk and thoughts than I realized, but after months of doing this I learned how much it really bothered me, and how people ( including myself ) are so unaware of it.

I would not acknowledge the negative, ands refused to talk about it. The goal was to minimize it and not allow it to be a part of my life. The more I did this I will say the better my life was getting, yet I found myself becoming sensitive. If someone said something "just joking" in a negative manner, I found that it hurt, even if it was a no big deal statement.

Another example, I had someone complaining to me for about 20 minutes on an issue, and I then asked that person in terms of a percentage how often were they a positive person. The answer I got was they felt they were positive 99% of the time.... after complaining for 20 minutes.... The point here is we are so caught up in this behavior that we are unaware of it.

So can we agree that if we minimized/reduced the amount of negative behavior and thoughts we were having each day, that the quality of our life would improve? If you do not label something as good or bad, or acknowledge the negative, it cannot be a very big part of your life. What do you have to lose give it a try, wonderful things will happen if you allow them to.

What really happens with the negative is your friends will try to get your vibration to the same negative vibe as they are, or you will try to get them to your vibe, do not play this game, you are doing this and so are they without realizing it. By not getting caught up in this, this is another way you can improve your life.